We all have bad days. But why do some people seem engaged and happy more often? What’s the secret to having great mojo?
1. Let go of the past.
People with great mojo are free from the past. When they are with you, they areright there with you, vital and aware in the present moment. Let’s learn from them. Stop giving old stories so much mindshare. Give yourself the gift of freedom by letting go of old hurts and paying more attention to what is in front of you, taking in the sights and relationships with a new eye of awareness. The world has changed. People have changed. You have changed. So look at life anew again and you’ll find greater connection.
2. Shine real attention on others:
People with great mojo pay more attention to others. They make you feel like there’s no one else in the world but you. So, when is the last time you tried to make someone you’re talking to feel like the only person in the world? Do youreally see and hear the person in front of you? Do you hang on their every word, listen for nuance, give them your full energy and focus?
3. Bring joy to every moment:
People with great energy have more joy and enthusiasm for what they experience, even the simple things. They take everything in with a greater level of gratitude. It’s as if they are a child unwrapping a gift at Christmas. They bring joy and enthusiasm to the moment and those around them. Perhaps life would come alive for all of us if we started looking for fun and joy in all we do. Always remember to bring the joy – that’s the gift you give to others.
4. Honor and respect others:
People with strong mojo listen closer; they understand and reflect back what you say. If you are struggling, they are attentive and feel there with you. When you mention your dreams, they cheer you on. No matter what’s going on in their life, they never judge, demean or make fun of you…they’re happy for youand excited for what you are doing. Mimic that – become invested in other people’s happiness, joy and aliveness and, soon, others will be inspired by your energy and presence.
When you use these strategies, people will want to be around you more.
Your social sphere will open up and you will feel more connected to the moment. You’ll be happier and more likely to experience long-term joy and what we call The Charged Life!
How do you develop more positivity? How do you have good energy in the world?
You know that there are so many people out there who have horrible energy that it’s hard to be around them. Maybe they’re bitter; they’re upset all the time. They’re in a bad mood all the time.
You’re like, “Gosh, I don’t want to be around that person.”
But at the same time, I promise, you’ve probably been that person once or twice in the past.
- We all have bad days.
- We all get grouchy.
- We have mood swings once in a while.
We have this huge range of emotions. But, how do you have good mojo on a consistent basis?
People ask me that all the time. They see all these videos that we release here and they’re always saying, “You have such good positive energy. How did you develop such good positive energy?”
And I’m not sure it’s something that necessarily you develop. I think it’s just something that you choose to generate.
I always say, “You don’t have good energy, you generate good energy”.
But I think there are a few things that we can learn from really positive, buoyant people who have good mojo. Think about it.
Do you know somebody who just has awesome mojo? Like you get around them and…
- You feel good about life.
- You feel good about yourself.
- You’re inspired by them.
What is it? What do they have? What are they generating? What is it about them that makes you feel that way?
1. Well, I’ve noticed that the first trait of people who have good energy, good positive mojo; the first thing is, they’re released from the past.
They’re not carrying their junk into the current moment.
They’re actually right here with you in the present moment—detached from the past.
It’s like if you go out with your bunch of friends and you’re having a great lunch together. The reason that lunch is going great is because everybody’s just there in their vibe and they’re telling stories. They’re having a good time.
It’s not that they have all this heavy burden from them, from yesterday or the days before.
They’re released to be themselves in the moment to contribute to the moment, to be fully present and vital in the moment.
It’s like they’re really living in the moment and that comes from releasing the past. It comes from not being too attentive to:
- The next 9 minutes.
- The next 10 days
- The next year.
They’re right here with us.
So, if you want to develop great positive energy in your life, it’s about releasing whatever’s been burdening you.
You may be even carrying a cross or a frustration or an upset for so many years and maybe it’s time to let it go.
Just to give yourself that gift of having the freedom in the moment to actually feel positive.
To actually walk into a situation with somebody unburdened by all the past stories that you’ve had with them and just meet them again fresh, new. To take in who they are now in the moment because:
- Your family has changed.
- Your friends have changed.
- The world has changed.
Meet people where they are now.
It brings a new vital sense.
You become more appreciative and attentive to the moment.
So release the past, live in the moment now.
That’s the first hallmark of great people with mojo. They’re just there with you. It’s amazing.
2. I would say the second thing about it is they have the ability to shine real attention on others.
It’s like they’re just paying attention at a different level. You talk with them and then you say afterwards, to one of your friends you say, “She was really listening to me. She was very attentive to me. I can’t believe how much they paid attention to what I was saying. It was like there was no one else in the world but them and me in that moment.”
You know what I’m talking about?
When is the last time, you tried to make the person you’re talking with feel like the only person in the world?
We do that when we’re dating, when we’re out on a new date with somebody. Man, we just want to shine them with all that attention.
But over a period of time, it’s like, “Honey give me a beer”. Or people just stop paying attention.
They don’t even see the people they’re talking with. They never look in the eye and actually connect anymore. They don’t try to make that person unique and amazing.
So what happens?
The persons, the vibe between the two people is lost.
So, have you been doing a good job in that department?
Making the person in front of you the only person in the world? You want to have a better relationship with your kids or your spouse or your team or the new people you meet at networking functions?
It doesn’t matter. When you meet a person, if you just shine your full attention on them, they’re going to be like, “That person has such good energy, I don’t even know why”.
It’s because you’re giving them attention.
3. I think the third trait is positive people with good mojo, they have more joy and enthusiasm for what’s coming up and for what they’re experiencing.
So in this present moment, they’re taking it in more with a great level of appreciation and gratitude.
And because they’re doing that, they’re kind of playing with the moment right now—there’ joy.
It’s kind of like, they’re that person who’s opening that gift at Christmas. They don’t even know what’s in it. Could be a small bit gift, a big gift but they’re like—they’re excited. You can see there’s enthusiasm for unwrapping this gift.
Well they bring that same joy and that same enthusiasm to unwrapping this experience that we’re going to have together, for unwrapping this moment. Even if they are just at the restaurant waiting for the meal, they’re excited for the meal to come.
There’s an amazing mojo around them because there’s enthusiasm.They’re breathing life into the moment. They’re feeling a sense of excitement for what’s about to come next.
So, they’re so fun to hang out with because it always feels like something’s about to happen because you can just sense that energy from them that they’re excited and appreciative of the moment.
4. And then, I would say the last thing about people with great mojo is they’re just honoring and respectful people.
When you talk with them, they listen and they reflect back what you’re saying.
When you mention you’re struggling with something they drop their tone and they were there with you.
You can tell they’re really attentive. They’re respectful.
When you mention your dreams to them, they don’t make fun of you. They don’t tease you, they cheer you on.
They’re like your little mini cheerleader in some way.
- They’re so excited for what you’re doing in your life.
- They’re honoring about your struggles.
- They’re honoring about your frustrations.
- They’re never demeaning or making fun of you or judging you.
They’re happy for you no matter what’s going on in their life.
Their life could be falling apart. But for you and where you’re at, they’re so excited for you and so invested in your happiness, your success, your joy, your aliveness.
These are people who have extraordinary mojo, the question is, “How have you been doing?”
- Have you been really letting go of the past and just jumping into the moment?
- Have you been given someone in front of you full attention?
- Are you making sure, you’re bringing the joy to every given moment and appreciating and recognizing what’s there?
- And are you honoring and respecting other people, really cheering them on?
If you’re doing that people will start to say:
- This person has great mojo.
- I want to be around that person.
- You should meet this person.
Your whole social sphere will open up but you will also feel psychologically so much more connected to the moment, so much more happy with your life, so much more likely to have great mojo tomorrow. So much more likely to experience what we call, The Charged Life.
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